Good hello, friends! This is one of those posts that I have been thinking about for a while and have had many conversations with friends and family about.
Recently we have made small steps, especially women, towards a more equal world for all genders. I really appreciate seeing small changes so if or when I have children they will grow up in a better world than I did.
There’s just one thing that has been bothering me that I feel needs to be talked about. Relationships. After joining the dating world again and talking to people I have noticed this imbalance that was the norm for me until now. This pressure on women to get married and have kids and young too! This ideology has been ingrained into women that is what will make them happy. Why should my life be devoted to getting married and having kids? Aren’t I person who deserves to have a career, or really anything I want like any man? It just seems like majority of women are looking for long-term, serious relationship, while men are looking for more casual fun especially in straight individuals.
My point is why can’t whoever identifies as a woman can’t decide for themselves to get married later in life, not get married at all, have kids, adopt, foster, or god for bid, have casual partners?! Why make others feel shame, guilt, inadequate, and really any negative feelings about themselves?
Also, why are people so passionate in other people’s business? You do you. Love is love. Live whatever life you want, but also, treat yo-self!
What do you think?
As always, thanks for reading!
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